Interesting new research from Lifeway about people’s view of same-sex marriage. I think one of the main points about the article is that it is viewed as a civil rights issue. In other words, the issue of same-sex marriage is on the same level as non-discrimination against others for race, gender, religion, etc. according to the majority of opinions in this survey.
As followers of Christ, we should understand that there are implications on many levels due to this shift in opinion. Understand I’m the type of person who thinks about possible implications to a decision and what the end result might be. In that vein, here are a few questions we should be considering and some next step questions that fall underneath these questions (in no particular order):
Can government force business owners, landlords, etc. who are opposed to homosexuality on religious grounds to violate their religious conscience and accommodate homosexual couples?
What does this mean for marriage since the government can define it any way they want?
Does this mean three (or more) people can get married? Brother and sister? (sounds crazy but remember the criteria is that two or more people are in love)
How do we teach our children to view this issue in light of the strong cultural pressure that is coming?
How will this affect what is taught in our public schools?
How do churches adapt to this shift in worldview?
How many churches will hold to the truth of the Bible in the face of cultural opposition?
How do we reach people for Christ when they believe same-sex marriage is a civil rights issue?
Will pastors who preach that homosexuality is a sin be accused of “hate speech?”
What does it mean? I don’t really know. I do know we need to be working on addressing these issues. I certainly have my opinion about these and other questions that are coming because of this potential shift in culture. The purpose of my post is to get you thinking about the implications and offer a few words of encouragement.
- Pray- This is a spiritual issue more than a political or cultural issue. Ask God for wisdom and pray for our leaders to have wisdom on this issue.
- Study God’s Word- We need to have God’s heart and mind on these issues. That only happens by being in relationship with Him and hearing His voice from Scripture.
- Speak to people with compassion and love- We will not change the culture’s view on this issue by screaming louder than them. We must speak the truth in love and have a genuine discussion about why we believe what we believe. Our goal is to allow the Holy Spirit, through our words and deeds, to reveal what is true, knowing we can’t argue them into believing something but must allow them to be won over to truth.
Isaiah 55:10 (NASU) “For as the rain and the snow come down from heaven,
And do not return there without watering the earth
And making it bear and sprout,
And furnishing seed to the sower and bread to the eater;
11 So will My word be which goes forth from My mouth;
It will not return to Me empty,
Without accomplishing what I desire,
And without succeeding [in the matter] for which I sent it.
It will be God who brings about the results He desires, not us. We should be found faithful telling others the truth and loving our neighbor as our self.
Finally, our ultimate goal is not to change people’s behavior. A person’s greatest need is not changed behavior but a changed heart. That can only be accomplished when a person accepts Jesus as their Lord and Savior. Even as we discuss topics like this, we must be looking for opportunities to share the Gospel with others. (See 1 Peter 3:8-18)